When you meet a guy or girl, you potentially know how long it will be until you hook up for the first time.
Men, in this generation, naturally want to hook up with women the first night–especially if they’re not that interested in her. Women who are looking just to have fun, will also hook up with a guy sooner than later if they’re slightly attracted to them.
Now keep in mind that being attracted to a male is different than actually developing feelings for him. Something men need to know, is that if a women holds out for weeks, or even months, it’s only because she’s interested in him, and she wants to make sure that he knows she’s taking him seriously. Once she decides to give it up, don’t disappoint her.
Here are 4 ways to figure out how to make a first impression:
1. Some women are hard to make climax, but fellas don’t let that be discouraging because that does not mean that she’s not enjoying it. However, if you cannot make her climax the first time you guys hook up, make sure that the sex lasts longer than 20 minutes. The reason why I say this is because women will pay attention to how much you take care of her in the bedroom.
2. Don’t over think about what you should do the first time you hook up. It’s obviously important to make an impression the first time, but making an impression comes with natural ability. If you’re taking control, she will definitely be turned on by that. Women tend to reach a climax when they’re very into what you’re doing to them. Don’t get nervous because she will sense it and she won’t have as much fun as she thought she would have. When you begin to overthink how you’re going to pleasure her, chances are you won’t make her climax. Just relax and be you with a little freaky side.
3. For females, orgasms are important. And ladies make sure that he comes, too. If just one of you has a happy ending during sex, expect a sad ending to the relationship. Gentleman, if she’s good in bed and you happen to climax first, that’s fine. BUT, make sure that you finish her off as well. Whether it’s playing with her or giving her oral. Don’t be selfish and let her have her finish, too.
4. This one is very important: don’t dirty talk if that’s not your thing! The first time you are having sex with her appreciate the natural moaning sounds that she’s reciprocating off of your stimulation. If she’s not moaning or breathing a little hard then you are obviously doing something wrong. If this happens, don’t get discouraged or stop trying to please her or yourself. Maybe suggest a different position or ask her what she wants. A girl can sure appreciate when a man asks her what she wants.
The truth is, if you take care of her in the bedroom, she will take care of you. Some men have obviously had a variety of experiences, but I think it’s safe to say that the majority of first sexual encounters with a partner are to make a first impression.